As a little boy I felt so confined by society's expectations of me. I dreamed of a life full of adventure, wonder, and most importantly, freedom. I was after the "good life" - if possible, one free from worry, stress, and the day-to-day routine of "grown up life". I didn't have many friends back then, and instead focused tremendous energy on my passions. With lots of dedication and a few BIG sacrifices, this slowly enabled the life I dreamed of to take shape.
So what does that life look like? Well for me, it's the promise of endless new horizons...seeking out and documenting the world's most fascinating cultures and stunning locations. That, and also being able to get by in at least ten different languages. Often challenging, always rewarding. This is my life. I don't have much money, but I can assure you...through these experiences, I am a wealthy man.
You know what? All that cliche stuff people say...I've found that it's pretty much all true. I wasn't the happiest child growing up. I struggled a lot. I have spent the last 15 years lifting myself up - working to create that "good life" - one that I can look back on and be truly happy about. I've learned a thing or two. Yes, I focused on my passions, and good things followed. My love of music, writing, and photography has transformed my life. More than just building my confidence - it has literally fueled my adventures around the world. Technically I "work" during my travels, but it certainly doesn't feel like it. Using my passions to propel me through life, I'm just living it - engaged in every moment. It doesn't even matter if you make money - sharing your passions and talent with the world can be a very rewarding experience in itself. You probably don't even realize the positive impact you can have on people's lives.
I feel so grateful for the simple, happy life I have now, but I also know that certain key realizations brought me here. Here they are:
"There are no mistakes, only lessons...no enemies, only teachers". Obstacles are welcomed challenges, and I can use them to grow and improve...to help me thrive in this world.
Studies show that money doesn't necessarily make people happier - very often it even makes them less happy. I sacrificed living a money-centered life for one focused on family, friends, interests, and new experiences. I realized that these things made me happier than anything else. Of course, I get almost all of these things from travel, and as I traveled more, I began to simplify my life by letting go of more and more possessions over time. I found that less stuff = more simplicity, and more simplicity = more happiness. Once you learn to be content with very little, life is a breeze!
I learned to live in the moment; to let go and be completely open to what life has in store for me. The more I learned to trust in this process, the more incredible and fortuitous my experiences seemed to become. One moment, I'm on the beach taking a photo of a stunning sunset...the next, a Brazilian couple walks up and tells me about a mind-blowing waterfall in a neighboring country. The following day I find myself on a bumpy bus-ride to the next great adventure! The weather very often dictates my plans - rain can cancel some, and create others that may prove to be even better. I learned to throw expectation out the window and embrace the magic of the moment. A friend of mine said "you're actually interacting with the earth". I love that.
This is my dream. I hope you will follow along and feel inspired to take steps toward a dream of your own. Cliche, but true...life's too short.
- Nathan Allen
Talk about dreams coming TRUE...on the night before my flight home I stayed up very late writing a blog piece titled "What I REALLY think of the Philippines". Exhausted by 4AM, I hit "post" and went to bed. The next morning I woke up to quite a surprise!
The blog post really took off...and that first day was just the beginning. One of largest news networks in the Philippines (GMA) contacted me to feature the post, and Yahoo and Sun Star followed soon after.
To my amazement, the article has now been viewed hundreds of thusands of times!! My brand new blog grew some wings and left the nest pretty quickly...
The most incredible part has been the outpouring of support from Filipinos from around the world. I was very happy that the response has been overwhelmingly positive! I'm so grateful to have been able to give a bit back to the wonderful country that gave me so much.
If true paradise is what you're after, look no further. El Nido is becoming touristy very quickly, but you can still head off the beaten path and find an island to call your very own if you really want to....read more
This sleepy little island off the coast of Cebu has some of the finest white-powder beaches you'll see outside of crowded Boracay. I didn't get to spend as much time here as I'd like, but I'll be back! Read more...
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This is no vacation - SE Asia has been home to me for almost 2 combined years. I love the food in Thailand, the spirit of the people in Cambodia, the serenity of Laos, the pace and culture of Vietnam, and the stunning beauty (in many senses of the word) of the Philippines! I bought a one way ticket and spent three months in India last year as well. What a mind-blowing cultural experience! In order to fully experience the wonders of the world, I had to completely embrace travel as a lifestyle. Click here to "like" IDreamedOfThis on Facebook, and I'll keep you updated on the newest posts! I won't let you down.
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